Much Obliged
Got a lull in the action -- I know, I'll blog!
I spent a couple of hours this morning at church, conducting interviews of people wanting financial assistance for luxury items like electricity and gas bills. We did what we could with the $1K that was allotted to us for the day. If we'd known that the woman asking for a big rent check was going to be a no-show (how does that happen?), we could have been more help to a couple of folks. As it was, we had to send them along to other agencies to seek the balance of what they needed to make it through another month.
I went from there to the Petroleum Club, where I sat in a leather armchair, was attended to by a bevy of waiters with thick accents, and dined on poblano cheese soup and chicken salad chile rellenos, in the company of bank presidents, oil company executives, and gentlemen ranchers who spend more for gasoline in a month than most of those above-mentioned folks spend for housing.
What's wrong with this picture?
Well, not a thing, in my humble opinion. Don't get me wrong -- the contrast was thought-provoking, and even sobering. But I don't think it requires much more response than to consider (1) my own blessings and (2) whether I'm being a good steward of them. It certainly didn't cause me to question whether those aforementioned swells (I'm not a member of the Petroleum Club, by the way, but my Durango does use its share of gasoline) would be judged harshly for being so prosperous while others weren't. In fact, I happened to know that some of those folks also give away more of their money than some of us make in a year.
In fact, the purpose of that lunch was to discuss with a client a new program by which people can set up permanent endowments to benefit our community by providing funds for things like scholarships, assistance to the disabled, and capital for the expansion of social services.
So, the surroundings may change, and the approach may be more, well, peripheral, but benevolence comes in many shapes and from many directions. Whether any of us are doing all that we should be doing is something that's between us and our Creator, and with a sincere question of "are we doing what we need to be doing?" we're probably on our way to assuring that, indeed, we are.
And sometimes life is like a scene from Richie Rich (I'm picturing you twirling around in your big cushy leather swivel chair). ;-)
In all seriousness, it sounds like you're being a good shepard. It really is amazing how different lives in the same community can be. I've had a few of those moments of stark contrast myself, helping out at a battered women's shelter one minute and meeting with a wealthy client the next...my attitude tends more toward the cynical. I appreciate your take on it. Well said!
Posted by: Gwynne at May 23, 2006 11:08 PMWallace, the seminar sounds interesting and worthwhile.
Gwynne, I wouldn't presume to claim that Midlanders are any more altruistic as a whole than any other population (although there are some statistics that might actually support that theory, in the areas of charitable giving), but I do wonder if the fact that our economy has for the past 40 years been subject to significant boom-and-bust cycles hasn't fostered a communal "but for the grace of God, there go I" mindset for many of us. Many of the current crop of wealthy folks got there via a painful route of layoffs and hard times.
Posted by: Eric at May 24, 2006 09:12 AMHear, hear.
Posted by: Janie at May 25, 2006 10:55 PM
Sometimes life is an enigma.....thanks for the thought provoking post.
By the way, and written here for general consumption. We at the First U. Methodist Church are going to be sponsoring a seminar "From Success to Significance" in October presented by www.Halftime.org. A spiritual look at how we can turn our earning talents into helping skills. An inter-demoninational program. Hope you can stir some First Baptist attendees.
Posted by: Wallace-Midland, Texas at May 23, 2006 10:11 PM